What is your program?

Pay close attention to what you say after "I ...."  You are saying and thinking your own program.  You are actually reinforcing any conscious (or unconscious) beliefs about youself.  Paying attention to what you say or think after "I" is a perfect way to see what you are and how you create your reality.

Now I get it

When I was growing up I was impressed with the feeling that I "aught to feel lucky for what I've got."  It was said in a way that meant I am not worthy of anything I have.  Shame